Now if you take a look at your life you can see three distinct (3) phases: you have birth, death, and, between those two parameters, you have the process of becoming, of you becoming.

It’s really hard to imagine that a different reality other than the one your eyes tell you is there exists. It’s really hard to imagine that a life without pain exists. But it’s also important to accept that there is so much suffering in this world.

The first way is that transformation chooses you and when that happens, there’s nothing you can do about it. Now, the second way transformation occurs is through personal choice and the problem with personal choice is that you have time and you can choose when to start and stop.